When someone breaks your hard-placed trust.....

All of us are very selfish creatures. We ought to think about "ourselves" first in every situation life presents us with.. This may sound very blatant but that's the fact of life..

We protect ourselves from anyone and everyone we meet in our lives and think of our interests foremost. Whether this person will prove to be a good friend to "ME",whether this person can be entrusted with "MY" thoughts,"MY" feelings and "MY" secrets... These are some of the questions our mind has subconsciously when we meet new people and when we are in a stage of developing new relationships.. There is absolutely nothing wrong in this. It is a natural protective tendency...

Sometimes,during the course of developing these new relationships,we stumble upon someone whom we start trusting. Maybe a little at first and then with our lives when all the tests our mind formulates to test that person get over... That person becomes a part of our life....sometimes such an important part that you cannot imagine a day without him/her.. He/she becomes your close confidant and you start sharing your every fickle thought with him/her. Life seems to be at its best during such times.

But what happens when these rose-tinted glasses are shattered by the same person you have been trusting your life with?? Maybe knowingly or unknowingly this person breaks your trust or just walks out of your life which is equally hurting. Why in this big world people don't care for someone's feelings when they know the importance the person places in them... And most importantly how the person affected should trust someone in future...

All of this may sound bitter but i just want to stress the fact that in the course of our daily lives we trample upon feelings of people who love us and trust us which includes family and friends.

Think about them.... The solution is,some of you reading this may say,that we should think twice before trusting someone so much but it is easier said than done. The solution is,I feel, that don't make yourself so trustworthy in someone's eyes when you are not worth it..